Texting / Smsing

Is it just me or is smsing ruining the communication process? It actually keeps a person's true personality and spontaneity in a conversation from showing up. When you can edit and decide how and what you wanna say something before you say it, it makes you seem like a much better communicator than you may actually be.

People can be one room away and sms one another instead of just walking to the person's door and asking them the question they wanna ask. People rarely talk on the phone anymore, they would rather sms. Smsing has ruined phone calls for me, I don't really like talking on the phone now, does that make me anti-social? DEFINITELY NOT.

By the way, have you ever had someone get mad at you because of the way THEY interpreted something you said in a sms? When you're talking to someone, you can hear certain voice inflections, sarcasm, and joking nature, but when you sms, it's only words on a screen. Ever have an argument over a sms that you sent that was misinterpreted by the person you sent it to? There's nothing worse than trying to explain what you meant in a sms with another sms. That's just irritating. I think smsing has made people too emotional, words don't have meaning outside of the meaning that a person places onto those words. Hence if you get upset about a sms, maybe that says something about your interpretation.

期许的坏习惯

最近总是发现自己的记忆力衰退,注意力无法集中。
这是可能是事情处理太多而造成自己的空白吗?
NOPE....
我想应该是事情放弃跟摆烂太多所导致的吧。

习惯性的种种，无限轮回。
亮了红灯，也不见得停。
亮了绿灯，竟然却步。
新的一年希望自己的眼睛不要只看着眼前，偶尔也看看左右。
也不要只看也要动。

保持思考。

更希望自己在评论别人前先瞧瞧自己，自己根本还没发芽。

Mistakes of the Past

Everyone of us has done things in the past that we regret later in life. The guilt of doing it, does haunt us one time or another, doesn't it?

It is something which had gone wrong, that you could have repaired well now as compared to then. When someone reminds you of those things, you start remembering it. Everything appears and passes in front of you like a flash. You forget the things on hand. Sometimes, just that short amount of time of thought can spoil your whole day.

The past is much more powerful than it looks. The past carries vital experiences that can be used in the present. Something similar happening can be solved well with the experiences we had before. But it also has its own ugly face, which can turn the tide in today's context of things. It will spoil your mood, make you upset or even feel irritated on yourself.

Well... it depends from person to person. Some people don't like remembering things, some don't even remember things. For me, I tend to get upset by things like this. My mood changes extremely fast and I totally feel miserable. The guilt of doing something wrong in the past, does haunt me.

I have tried lot of things to keep myself busy during such an outburst of thoughts. But somehow, I find myself trapping in the darkest canopy of room. Getting lost in the thoughts and giving no care to what was happening in front of me. Me being a Gemini, fast changes of mood was by nature.

A couple of days ago, I had one those days again. Remembering some old friend whom I have no contact now. The way we went different ways, was not satisfying. I felt I could have done much better to keep in touch with that person, instead of having a not so good relationship.

All of a sudden there were some thoughts passed through my mind, i figured out the way to break the jinx. I am a normal human being and I am allowed to make mistakes. Nobody is perfect, those days are gone. Maybe I should not forget that it is the past that I have grown up from. Feeling guilty about it, will not resolve anything today.

I changed the way I felt about the whole thing. I felt great about leaving things behind, especially the guilt feeling. I did a mistake, but I can forgive myself even though my friend could not. I felt better within. I am a changed man now.....

The Other Half Of The Equation

What you do with your life is just one half of the equation;

The other half, the more important half, is who you are with when you are doing it.

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I'm sad, I'm down........ There are no words could possibly describe the sadness i feel.

Words are empty shells; Words can only tell the outer shell of the story

The sadness i feel, the pain i smell; No one in this world can feel the same

Law of Attraction

I have read 'The Secret' and applied it to my life a lot of times. Meanwhile, reading the secret, I have learned a lot of simple quick techniques to use the law of attraction easily and with fun.


The easiest way to use or understand the law of attraction is probably the most simple things I have ever learned in my life. Just start by being happy with yourself and what and where you are now. Be happy with yourself as well as others because when you curse or envy or feel anything bad for others, you will get the reflection back. Once I learned this, I started to change my thinking and things changed. Be yourself and love yourself.

The next step would be not to get depressed by anything. I used to get depressed by almost everything around and that made me more depressed. No matter what is making your depressed or feel bad but never ever stay in depressive state. Get some sleep, listen to some music or just get out for a walk. So, that second thing to remember is always be happy with yourself and your situations. They are good for you.

Now that third step in this easiest way to use the law of attraction is that you should do what you want. If you want your relationships to be good and happy just start believing that you are actually in good and happy relationships. The easiest way to use the law of attraction starts here. Suppose my parents used to scold and dump me a lot of pressure about studies but now, everything stopped. Everything became casual and happy. Dad always remains in good mood while mom always make me feel happy and cared of. So, what did I do? I changed my thinking about my parents. From thinking that they are bad and abusive I started thinking what good they had and how they cared a lot for me.

While it's hard to say where the matrix of the universe meets your success counterpart, the easiest way to use the law of attraction is to make things casual. Start being casual with what you want. Start being casual with things as if they are at your doorstep. Start being casual with your life.

That's the easy way to use the law of attraction. :)

I Don't Know What To Do Anymore.....

I've been extremely clueless for the last one week. You see, I don’t know what to do anymore.

My motley group of friends and siblings suggested the following, strictly keeping me in mind, as they emphasized:

1. Become a food taster.

2. Learn piano (I wish i learned it when i was a kid).

3. Try gardening without killing the plants and watering the weeds.

4. Learn pottery.

5. Apply for another degree (are you kidding me?).

6. Be different: think negative.

7. Act profound and stare when someone approaches me.

8. Pretend I’m an alien (this shouldn’t be tough).

9. Get a binocular, peer without a break into the neighbour’s house.

10. Learn to type with my toes.

11. Transmigrate.

12. Tonsure my head.

WOW...... Should i do all that? Guys.... Anymore?